Friday, October 1, 2010
Understanding 3 Year Olds
Here's "that thing": My daughter and her family have the movie, The Cat In The Hat. I have the same exact movie.
A couple of weeks ago Nolan wanted to watch MY Cat in the Hat movie. I told him that my movie was the same as his movie and that since we were watching it on HIS TV, we could watch HIS movie, which was right next to HIS TV.
He didn't want to watch HIS movie. He wanted to watch MY movie. So I got MY movie and held it next to HIS movie.
"See? It's the exact same movie," I said convincingly.
"But I want to watch YOUR movie."
"Nolan, look," I said holding the two movies side-by-side in front of him. "It's the same movie."
That's when he started crying. That's when I wondered, why does it matter which movie he watches if I have the same movie?
Dinner was ready, so we all ate dinner and he forgot about it.
Until the next day.
That day Nolan wanted to watch MY Cat in the Hat movie. Not his. Mine. And just when I was about to argue with him about how MY movie and HIS movie were exactly the same movie, he said, "This time never never again say that thing to me."
"That thing" apparently meant pointing out the fact that my movies and his movies were the same movies.
Recently, in order to downsize, I put all of my movies into a portable carrying case, ridding myself of all of the plastic cases. It saved me a lot of room. Now Nolan and Audrey enjoy leafing through the movies to find one they want to watch. What's perplexing about this ordeal is that they have HUNDREDS of children's movies. I have less than 20.
Despite the fact that they have so many more movies from which to choose, it looks like we will be watching MY movies from now on. Why?
If anybody out there can understand the thinking of a three-year-old, please explain his reasoning to me, because while I pride myself on figuring out the thought processes of toddlers, this particular toddler has me stumped.
In the photo above, Audrey and Nolan sit next to their plastic cup and paper plate creation. Behind them sits just a fraction of their movies.